
ALL’S FAIR IN LOVE AND WAR?
OK, so huge disclaimer before anyone reads this book – There is a lot of religious / spiritual referencing in here! Don’t be put off though! It may sound bible bashy in parts (You will come to realise that is itself a part of the story) without being religiously persuasive or opinionated though I do bring in a lot of our spiritual past, systemic past and so on in order to draw the BIGGER PICTURE OF LOVE!
This is a tale of the sexes, the history of our roots, the morphing of worlds both old and new and how we can use all of these tales to create a deeper understanding of our connection to
REAL LOVE
This book uncovers the tales of:
- Aphrodite and Adonis
- Romeo and Juliet
- Mary Magdalene and Jesus
- Blake
- Anna Karenina
- A bit of a personal reference here and there
And then some questions, theories, ideas and so on that can help us to reach deeper into the portal of LOVE and how we can reach that divine spark and go higher in our pursuit to really feel the love, embody the love and LIVE THE LOVE!
For that is why we are all here, is it not?
THE TALE OF APHRODITE AND ME
So, I am from the fields of Yorkshire but, in 2021 my family and I relocated to Paphos, Cyprus and have since taken residence on the shores of the birthplace of our beloved deity, Aphrodite
I have always had a fondness of the quest and query of Aphrodite, to the point that when my eldest was born back in late September 2009, the very month that honours Venus (roman equivalent of Aphrodite) we decided to call her Tahlia. Tahlia (meaning blooming or to bloom / lovely) being the name of one of the nine muses (also spelled Thaleia), she is known as the goddess of comedy, poetry and liberal arts. Together, Aphrodite and the Muses intertwine to create a rich tapestry of inspiration that has influenced countless artists throughout history. Well, if you only knew my Tahlia! Comedian in the making! Quite the introvert, her humor is unassuming but my goodness when she brings it out…..HILARIOUS!
Anyway, here we are, on the Island of love and the energy of Aphrodite / Venus has captured me! So much so that it has taken me DEEP on a journey both intra-personally and collectively on the very question of WHAT IS LOVE?
I have gone into spaces and places I never knew I would visit on my quest to find these answers. Orthodox churches, mountains, oceans, sex parties (I don’t participate but) and have made friends over the last few years with many from illicit backgrounds with their tales of love and sex that have filled me with…..YES, more questions!
And in asking more questions in the hope to find more answers, I discovered a secret from the Goddess of love herself! If you want to know what the secret is, you will have to read the book and once you know, please keep it to yourself for there is a reason why it’s a secret!
But I hope you love the journey! It is a never ending saga, unfolding webs and weaves of kink, purity, divinity, sacred union, destroying old beliefs and ways to create new ones –
AN ETERNAL FLAME


HERE IS A LITTLE REEL THAT MY YOUNGEST AND I FILMED WHERE WE LIT THE ETERNAL FLAME TO SHARE WITH ALL OF YOU – MAY YOUR QUEST FOR LOVE BE AS VIBRANT, EXQUISITE, PURE AND PLEASURABLE AS OURS
WHERE IS THE LOVE?
This June 2025, we are hosting our PORTAL, WHERE IS THE LOVE, where we will be uncovering a lot of the topics spoken about in this book. A topic that this year, the year of FINDING SELF is one of the most crucial parts of the quest for deeper understanding and connection, so if you’re interested in digging deeper and enhancing your LOVE journey, whether that be
SELF LOVE, SPOUSAL LOVE, PARENTAL LOVE, FRIENDSHIP LOVE, COSMIC LOVE, TWIN FLAME LOVE……
WE HAVE GOT YOU COVERED
But until then, you can head to our FOCUS GROUP – GAME OF THRONES that looks into these questions on a deeper level and get involved with your quest for LOVE AND UNDERSTANDING
Or, you can spend a moment listening to the beautiful, heartfelt words of our boy OLIVER TWIST where he is searching for his love and asking, “does it fall from skies above?” Will he ever know?
WHERE IS LOVE





